VIndictiveness: Hurt In A Mask

Vindictive! Vindictive! Vindictive!

This word has been thrown around my atmosphere a lot lately. The Webster Collegiate Dictionary defines vindictive in more than one way. The way that it applies in this writing is the intention to cause anguish or hurt. To be spiteful!

Vindictiveness involves aim! Vindictiveness is used to gain dominance over another or a situation. I personally don't want to be dominant over anyone or anything, nor do I want anything to be dominant over me. Wanting to dominate over someone else I believe is caused by the insecurity you have within yourself. If you respect yourself and those around you, then being spiteful is not necessary,even if others are taking this approach.

Vindictiveness! Vindictiveness! Vindictiveness! It sprouts from conflict! I may be in conflict with myself or an outside source. I may not agree with what is going on in my current circumstance and that will sprout vindictive thinking. If I feel this way, it is very important to change this behavior.

Once Vindictiveness is started, it can and will spread like wild fire. So how do I notice my vindictiveness early? Let me say this, vindictiveness is a personal thing it shows it self in different forms because we all have different opinion. So it all starts with self and changing your thoughts. The outside source looking in can only give opinion. Opinion is not fact!